Desire 2021 – Covid-19 Updates

We all know that life can throw curveballs, and the stewardship of the health of our Swingset community will always inform our choices whether or not to gather in-person. It is for this reason that we are REQUIRING ALL ATTENDEES TO BE VACCINATED. (Medical exemptions considered.)


We'll be the first to admit that our trip isn't for everybody. We approach our takeover much differently than many others.

The Swingset Takes Desire has always aimed to be a place for all, but especially for those who feel out of place among the masses. We look to provide space for the communities that swinging doesn't always serve, be it the LGBTQ community, BDSMers, and folks who don't necessarily consider themselves swingers. While our group is chocked full of swingers, you'll also find the polyamorous, nudists, triads and quads, those looking to explore their sexuality and themselves.

We are definitely a trip for people who are DTF (down to fuck) but also pride ourselves in being a trip for people who are down to talk, down to meet, down to flirt, down to play (and not just sexy play), and down to connect.

The connections we make in life can define who we are as people, and every year we make connections, and see connections made, as deep as any friendship, and our final day are like the last day at camp, when all you can do is plan trips to visit, or promise you'll see them again next year.

On our trip, you do you! We have events, parties, our own themes, live podcasts, sexy workshops and demonstrations, the first dungeon night in the disco, and more. Our events are designed to help you meet and connect with as many people as possible, and run all week!

This sound like your jam?

Join us for the ninth annual Swingset Takes Desire resort takeover this November 6-13th.

The Swingset Takes Desire changed our lives. Maybe it can change yours.

Hope to see you there!

2021 Waiting List

While we at The Swingset are absolutely thrilled that 2021 has SOLD OUT, we know you wanted to attend! Sometimes things happen and people have to drop out of the trip, so we are currently adding couples to our wait list when they fill out the form below.

Book Now for 2022!

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Our trip runs 11/5-11/12, 2022, if you'd like to come in early, need fewer nights, or a different week, please enter that.
Pricing is based on a FULL WEEK FOR 2 GUESTS, shorter stays will be adjusted. Adding a 3rd person to the room is 50% extra.
Covid Vaccination

Here are some of the events and workshops for our 2021 trip!

Speed Dating • Pegging Demo
Themed Orgies • Gang Bangs
Foam Party • Rope Classes
Cuddle Party • Energy Play
Desire for Shy Folk & Newbies
Wine & Beer Social • Karaoke
Flogging Demo •
Live Podcasts
and More to Come!


While Desire has their own regular theme nights, on our takeovers we also takeover the themes! Here are 2021's theme nights! (Click them for more info!)

The carnival is coming to town, and it's bringing with it something dark, something evil, something wicked, but oh so tempting” – Let's fill the evening with circus performers, carnies, ring masters, dangerous animals, or villainous ne'er-do-wells – perhaps the evil ringmaster – the illustrated man himself – Mr Dark will make an appearance?

Think “pervertables” but for your whole body. Reuse previous costumes, repurpose household goods, or reduce your costume to the bare minimum. One person's junk is another person's fabulous outfit!

Set your phasers to STUNNING! The universe is ours to discover on this night of sensual space folx, amorous aliens, and inter planetary sexploration. Pew pew pew!

Shiny, sparkly, fluorescent and glowing or full of rainbows! Shine bright you sexy people!

What's long and hard and full of seamen? A submarine of course! What strange sights will the crew of the USS Penetration see if they visit us tonight? Merfolk? Sexy Atlanteans? Neptune or Venus on a half shell? Cruising sharks or cuddle fish? Definitely hoping for some naughty tentacled shenanigans! Regardless I hope we can all agree to be fronds and not anemones.

A night full of vampires, villains, and their willing victims – lace, leather, and gothic splendor. No costume is too over the top, or too dark.

In addition to stalwarts goddesses and gods like Bacchus, this year we're encouraging shy denizens of the wood to make their appearances: Nymphs, naiads, satyrs, qilins, nomes, goblins, elves, or perhaps a hellhound or two.


These rates includes seven nights for two people, 1 room, food and drink included. Deposit is only one night’s stay

Deluxe Garden View: 4,550 USD
Superior Garden View: 4,760 USD
Deluxe Ocean View: 4,990 USD
Garden View Jacuzzi Suite: 5,390 USD
Ocean View Jacuzzi Suite: 6,090 USD
Passion Suites: 7,950 USD

Availability for stays of less than seven nights is limited, so please fill out the form to the right if you need an adjusted schedule.

Missives from Paradise

Every year, we record a live podcast from the resort. Below you'll find episodes recorded on the trip and those looking back and reflecting on the trip.